My Gf is pregnant and keeps bitching me out, advise?

Ok my gf is 7 weeks preggers and well i don't know why but i admit i am pulling away. I am scared to touch her and be near her. I have stopped having sex with her and she feels like she is loosing me and she keeps bitching me out. We are both 16 btw, advise? i just feel so overwhelmed i am not sure what to do.My Gf is pregnant and keeps bitching me out, advise?
Hmmm.... try to imagine being as emotionally angry as you can be... like something that totally makes you lose your mind... Now imagine feeling that way over realizing that there's no ketchup in the fridge... or over towels being folded the wrong way. That's my general disposition during pregnancy (and I have 3 kids). The worst part is knowing that you are being totally irrational, but there's nothing that can be done to stop it. She may not have voiced it, but she probably also is having a swirl of scary thoughts like you. She's worried that her life is ruined (although I don't think it is), and that your life is too, and that child birth is going to hurt (and it is), and that you're going to leave her (and it sounds like you might, even though I hope you don't). The likelihood of your relationship lasting forever is slim, but not non-existent. Of my 5 best friends from high school, 1 is now married to her high school sweet heart. The rest of us moved on to bigger and better things :o). I had my first child when I was too young (20), and I often wish I could have been the parent I am now, back then.


I think, at this point, you really have to look at your life, and examine what you liked or didn't like about your childhood. Was your father around? Did you have other male role models? What do you want your child to experience that you didn't? Although you may not have the financial means to make grand things happen, you have most of what you need to make the emotional things happen.





I will be praying for you and your girlfriend. More than that, I will be praying for your baby :o).My Gf is pregnant and keeps bitching me out, advise?
Okay first of all just stop and take a deep breath. Both of you are scared and probably have a million thoughts going through your minds and thats normal. You said your scared to touch her well believe me shes scared of herself too. When I got preg. and first found out i was so nervous and constantly asking myself, how am i going to do this, am i going to be a good mom, how will i no what the baby wants and lots more. Your gf is thinking about all these things and it doesnt help her hormones are crazy right now because of the baby. You both have to try and just relax and take it one day at a time. Cut her some slack and try to think how she feels right now. When she bitches u out like u say just think its not her its her hormones. i was the same way when i was preg and thank god my boyfriend was amazing. If you two start to aruge both of u just take minute and walk away and calm down. she shouldnt be getting worked up over anything right now. The first trimester is really scary for women just try and be there for her and trust me it will get better. all the hardtimes your going to go though the next 9 months will be worth and seem petty as soon as you hold that little baby for the first time. Hang in there hun!!
Wow... well ok, so her hormones are out of control right now, and no matter how old you are, you need to realize that. She can tell you are pulling away and I am sure she is scared to death. No one likes to be left alone while they are pregnant and maybe that is what she thinks you are trying to do... distance yourself and eventually leave. I am 25 and my ex did that to me and it killed me. I was terrified! I cannot imagine being 16! Just remember she is going through a lot right now, more than you will ever understand, so be supportive! Even though it's hard and scary for you too, be supportive. Make her feel as if you are not going to leave! Babies are a huge deal! Good luck and remember she is just as scared if not more than you are... but stick together, you will be ok! :)
i was like that i didn't want my bf to touch me,be close to me, everytime he was close to me i hated him i couldnt stand him at all,i would not even have sex and now that im 5 still dont like having sex like before..it lasted for 2 months like that. if shes been throwing up and all that stuff maybe thats why..(experience)





but if she feels like its ur falt u should be nicer to her like make her some food,keep asking her like every hour if she wants something or need something..we need those kinds of thing when were pregnant.





i always was like that with my bf but then he kinda go the idea
if you can have sex with her knowing the consequences and if you think you are responsible enough to have sex with her you need to tack up the responsibilities and she is a mess and its scary thinking you could be losing the one person who should be their for you be live me i would know me and my boyfriend are sixteen and ive thought he would leave me but instead he feels the way i do about this also i personally start crying and stuff if hes just to tie rd to have sex with me so its very hurt full
im 30weeks pregnant and just turned 17 so i was 16 when i found out and let me tell you i was very confused and emotional it really wasnt nice. and i kept bitching out at my bf all the time sometimes it wasnt his fault but most of the time it was his fault. he use to always annoy me and be constantly buzzing around me and swamping me with affection and giving me no space he did my nut in. i kno you said you do the opposite so why dont you try meeting half way inbetween? be loving and caring but not too much watever you do dont leave it coz i ended up splitting up with the dad to my baby
Hormones. Especially at a young age,hormones will go crazy. I know,I've been there. I had my daughter at sixteen. Her hormones are going absolutely crazy. Maybe you not having sex with her is causing her to feel unwanted? Why did you do that,b/c you were worried it would hurt the baby,or because you guys aren't getting along? I hope it all works out,good job keeping the baby and not asking her to get an abortion. Her hormones are going crazy,they'll work themselves out over time. Mine did it as well.
Good for you for doing the right thing and keeping your child. You can do it. There's free help available for teens who need support during pregnancy, just so you know, in case you need it: http://www.birthright.org/





Pregnancy is wonderful, but can be stressful on the father and mother. Try to respect your girlfriend as much as you can and stand by her, no matter what. She's carrying your child, remember. It's hard on her in the first trimester as her hormones are all over the place and she is extremely emotional. Her body and mind are adjusting to a whole new way of life.





Have you told her how you feel?





Best wishes.
Be yourself, she is pregnant it's life. Too bad you two are still children. Women can get bitchy when they are pregnant, it's the hormones not you. If you are backing out then I see a reason for her to be pissed at you. If you love her treat her as if she was not pregnant. This is the best time to have sex, She will not get anymore pregnant than what she is.
Don't be afraid to touch her! See to her emotional needs.. Stop having sex right now would prolly be a good idea (first trimester is tough, for most women).. But hug her, cuddle her, bring her out like what you would normally do, TALK with her.. Don't pull away, even if u're nervous about it all..





I doubt u would have posted here seeking advice if u decided on breaking up with the poor girl.. So have faith in yourself and be HER MAN right now..





All the best to u!!
how do you think she feels.


shes 16, knocked up, and the father of her baby is having second thoughts. shes prolly pretty scared too.


also when your preggers, your emotions go crazy. im not saying its an excuse, but cut her some slack.





id say definately stay with her, you got yourself into that mess. dont be irresponsible. you don't want that kid to turn out messed up.
Just think how she feels. She is hormonal and scared. Also the first trimester of pregnancy can really make you feel bad. Sex shouldnt be whats on your mind right now. You should be trying to do your best to help her through this time and figure out whats best for both of you and not just you.
yea, stop pissing her off. You dont have to deal with any of the changes she has to go through right now and particularly having to become an adult quite early on. Do what ever you can to keep her happy and stick around to take responsibility.
You were man enough to have sex and get her pregnant now you need to be man enough to deal with it.





your girlfriend is a hormonal mess right now, so much is happening to her body, you need to be supportive and put your own thought aside.
dont dump her, for one thing, she will get very depressed and that wont help her one bit. just wait a bit support her because like what kickass said. shes going through some weird changes because of the baby. make her happy. :)





hope this helps %26gt;;]
She is dealing with lots of hormones, it makes no sense to anyone. but hormones are hormones.
16?? Just try to get along..