I know a guy named Drew who got married and then became gay, so what should I advise him to do?

His wife still doesn't know. He usually parties with guys on weekends, and goes to gay clubs.I know a guy named Drew who got married and then became gay, so what should I advise him to do?
I don't believe he ';became gay'; after he got married, but that's beside the point.





He needs to be honest with his wife about his sexuality. She needs to know, if she hasn't figured it out already. While it may be an uncomfortable conversation, the air does need to be cleared so that they can both move forward in their respective lives.I know a guy named Drew who got married and then became gay, so what should I advise him to do?
Drew did not BECOME gay. It's not like you wake you one morning and say ';well, I think I'll be gay today';. Drew did what A LOT of gay men have done. He covered his tracks; probably for a number of reasons.





I have seen this time and time again. People need to consider the other persons feelings. Why would you want to marry and destroy another's life? Genetically, you have to be who and what you are; nothing will ever change that. A person can only pretend for so long, and then it will all come out. Either she is going to find out. or he is going to tire of the double life style. The best thing Drew can do is separate and file for divorce or stand the chance of hurting someone that he probably cares about.
I think DREW should WITHDRAW
My best friend's cousin went through this. Her husband was gay and never told anyone (people don't become homosexual, they are born that way). He tried to fit in with society's idea of ';normal'; by getting married but the relationship broke up a few years ago when he finally admitted the truth. They were married long enough to have teenage kids! So, before it goes any further, he HAS to tell her the truth. The longer he waits, the harder it will be on everyone, especially if children are involved.
No matter what, he shouldn't lead her on like that.





He need to do the right thing and tell her that he's gay. Otherwise she's going to be in a one sided relationship, and that's not fair to her.
He didn't just become gay darlin he's always been gay and been hiding in the closet
Anyone who cheats on their spouse (even if using ';I just realized I was gay as an excuse) deserves to be dipped in cash and thrown to the divorce lawyers.
I understand your problem. The same thing happened to a friend of mine. Except he moved to Idaho and dresses his son up like a little girl. It's sad really.


You need to salvage this poor man immediately. First, send him lots of chick flicks. And by chick flicks, I mean lesbian porn. Then pay his wife to have sex with him as much as possible. Have her rape him if needed. Then have her take out all of the provacative objects from the house. All of the bananas, hot dogs, twinkies, shampoo bottles, screwdrivers, etc.


Actually, just send him to Derren Brown. He will be able to turn him straight immediately.
he has to tell her he cant let her find out the hard way then she will be more crushed!